We had a terrible weekend in January deciding which AAU basketball team Jaxon would play for this spring. Team One Tyrone had already developed a relationship with one of the other dads, gone to all the try outs, made the team and paid a lot of money. They were super excited to have Jaxon on the team. Team Two was coached by a dad of one of Jaxon's middle school teammates and he put the full court press on us to change teams after we were already committed. As we went back and forth one team accused the other of being money hungry. The other of being racist. Jaxon went to two trainings sessions with Team Two and loved them! Tyrone was on call and out of town the weekend we had to make the decision and disappoint one coach/team and texts were flying back and forth. Tyrone wanted the team he'd developed relationships with and committed to. I wanted the team that promised to take Jaxon to and from every practice. We ended up letting Jaxon decide (!) and he chose Team Two ...