I'd been drafting a post in my head about modesty for men when I came across this article - When Suits Become a Stumbling Block . It's everything I wanted to say; just better - much better. So read it and then come back and add to the list. Here's what I'm adding 1. No backward caps 2. No arm cleavage (t-shirts that are just a little too snug on the biceps) 3. No buff men cuddling babies or pushing jogging strollers 4. No black men on bicycles Tyrone and Scotia - BYU 2008